Booking Basics: Clear Guidelines for a Seamless Request

What to Know Before You Reach Out

Booking Etiquette & Planning Notes

Connecting with Me begins the same way any professional arrangement does: with clarity, structure and intention. The administrative pieces come first. Logistics, screening and consent create the container that allows everything else to unfold. There will be time for fantasy and desire once the foundation is properly set.

A Note on Planning & Space

Dungeon space in Toronto is currently very limited. At this time of writing, there are only a few dedicated dungeon spaces serving the city and many providers are working within the same venue system. Because of this, physical space is often the limiting factor - not My availability. If you have specific dates or timeframes in mind, planning well in advance is essential. Reaching out early greatly increases the likelihood that appropriate space can be secured and avoids unnecessary disappointment.

The Booking Process Order

Contact Form → Negotiation & Planning → Mandatory Deposit → Confirmation

This order is intentional and not flexible. Each step builds trust, confirms consent and allows Me to hold time and space properly.

Helpful Guidelines

  • Treat this process as you would any professional arrangement

  • When addressing Me via e-mail, use my honorific “Goddess”

  • Begin with My contact form - it contains the information I need to get oriented

  • Use full sentences and communicate clearly

  • Be prepared to send a deposit to complete your booking

How to Introduce Yourself & Negotiation

This is where I learn how you communicate.

Please share:

  • a few things you enjoy and a few things you do not

  • at least one clear limit. “No limits” is not helpful and it also doesn’t exist. Naming your boundaries helps to build trust

  • an honest reflection of your experience level

If you are newer, curiosity is always welcome. If you are experienced, clarity is appreciated.

Expect follow-up questions through e-mail and in-person. Many words have multiple meanings to different folks and I ask clarifying questions to ensure alignment and safety.

Time Minimums & Pacing

My minimum engagement is 1.5 hours.

That said, I strongly prefer 2- and 3-hour containers. Longer timeframes allow us to:

  • settle into the space

  • build tension gradually

  • move with the body rather than rush it

  • create depth and continuity

I do not rush experiences. Taking time matters to Me.

Deposits

Deposits are mandatory and have been industry standard for many years.

  • Deposits are electronic only.

  • They are applied toward the total Tribute

  • No personal or kinky commentary should ever be included in the transfer notes

  • Deposits are non-refundable.

Deposits reflect labor already completed: communication, planning and securing space.

First Meetings

New environments, new dynamics and new people can naturally bring nerves. I account for this and meet you where you are in the present moment, without pressure or expectation to perform. First meetings are about us getting to know one another: how we communicate, how we move together in a scene and how your body responds to sensation, pacing, activities and My presence. I work only within what we’ve discussed beforehand and do not push limits on first meetings. I check in more deliberately and allow things to unfold rather than forcing intensity. Depth comes with trust and trust is built through experiences together, clarity and shared awareness. There is no rush. We take the time we need.

Ready to Book?

Priority is always given to those who approach this process with care, respect and attention to the guidelines outlined above. If this approach resonates with you, begin by completing My contact form.

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